Grief doesn’t keep a schedule

Why grief can feel worse months later, and small ways to look after yourself when it does.

Many people expect grief to fade steadily. Often it comes in waves: a song, a date on the calendar or an ordinary Tuesday can bring it back.

That isn’t a sign you’re doing it wrong. It’s how attachment works. The relationship continues in a different form.

If grief is making daily life very hard, or you’d like to talk with others going through it, our grief group and individual sessions can help.

This article is general information, not medical advice. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988.

Written by

Grace Lin

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor

Grace supports adults through grief, burnout and the changes that knock life off course.

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